Compassion for difficult people

149 Engaging in the Bodhisattva's Deeds

Part of an ongoing series of teachings based on Shantideva’s classic text, Bodhisattvacharyavatara, often translated as Engaging in the Bodhisattva’s Deeds. Additional texts referred to include the outline of the commentary by Gyaltsab Dharma Rinchen and the commentary by the Abbot Dragpa Gyaltsen.

  • Chapter 6, verses 3-6: Compassion for those with anger in their mind
  • Chapter 6, verses 22-25: Shifting the blame to the anger, not the person
  • Chapter 6, verse 41: Afflictions lead to harmful actions
  • Guided meditation on compassion for difficult people
  • Chapter 2, verses 28-31: Acknowledging our nonvirtue
  • Chapter 5, verse 34: Working with our mind when afflictions arise
  • Chapter 5, verses 48-54: Remaining like a piece of wood when afflictions arise
  • Chapter 7, verses 60-62: Protecting ourselves from the afflictions
  • Chapter 5, verse 24: Calming our mind when afflictions arise
  • Questions and comments

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Venerable Thubten Rinchen

Ven. Thubten Rinchen met the Dharma at Drepung Loseling Monastery in India in 2015, and then studied and practiced at Drepung Loseling center in Atlanta, where she took refuge with Geshe Dadul Namgyal. She met Ven. Thubten Chodron during a trip to India in 2016 and was able to first visit Sravasti Abbey in 2017. After another short winter visit, she was able to spend much of the summer of 2019 at the Abbey, including attending the Exploring Monastic Life program. While Ven. Rinchen initially put her monastic aspirations on hold for opportunities in Atlanta and India, the COVID pandemic provided a helpful reminder about the impermanent and unsatisfactory nature of samsara. She moved to Sravasti Abbey in August of 2020 and began anagarika training in October of that year. After a fruitful discernment period, she requested ordination and received her shikshamana ordination at the Abbey from Venerable Chodron in August of 2021. She received bhikshini ordination at Fo En Si Temple in Taiwan in March 2024. Prior to coming to the Abbey, Ven. Rinchen was involved in the Emory-Tibet Science Initiative, which provided many opportunities to travel to the Tibetan Monasteries in India to teach physics to monks and nuns, which she did every summer from 2015 to 2019. She taught physics at a college in Atlanta, and performed research in medical physics. At the Abbey, Ven. Rinchen is part of the finance team, facilitates SAFE, assists with IT, and keeps the website running. She also enjoys caring for the kitties, tending the vegetable garden, studying Tibetan, and cooking Indian food.