Zoom: Kindness in Times of Disagreement
Venerable Thubten Damcho 
Mar 17, 2023 
2 hours
Online
Kindness in Times of Disagreement
Tuesday April 18
6:30 pm to 8 pm Pacific Time
Hosted on Zoom by the North Idaho College Diversity Council
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What do we usually do when others disagree with us? Repeat ourselves, raise our voices, and tear down others and their ideas. Do these strategies change peoples’ minds or lead to understanding? Join Buddhist nun Venerable Thubten Chodron to explore what's going on in our hearts when disagreements arise and how kindness can help us in such difficult situations.
Venerable Thubten Damcho
Ven. Damcho (Ruby Xuequn Pan) met the Dharma through the Buddhist Students’ Group at Princeton University. After graduating in 2006, she returned to Singapore and took refuge at Kong Meng San Phor Kark See (KMSPKS) Monastery in 2007, where she served as a Sunday School teacher. Struck by the aspiration to ordain, she attended a novitiate retreat in the Theravada tradition in 2007, and attended an 8-Precepts retreat in Bodhgaya and a Nyung Ne retreat in Kathmandu in 2008. Inspired after meeting Ven. Chodron in Singapore in 2008 and attending the one-month course at Kopan Monastery in 2009, Ven. Damcho visited Sravasti Abbey for 2 weeks in 2010. She was shocked to discover that monastics did not live in blissful retreat, but worked extremely hard! Confused about her aspirations, she took refuge in her job in the Singapore civil service, where she served as a high school English teacher and a public policy analyst. Offering service as Ven. Chodron’s attendant in Indonesia in 2012 was a wake-up call. After attending the Exploring Monastic Life Program, Ven. Damcho quickly moved to the Abbey to train as an Anagarika in December 2012. She ordained on October 2, 2013 and is the Abbey’s current video manager. Ven. Damcho also manages Ven. Chodron’s schedule and website, helps with editing and publicity for Venerable’s books, and supports the care of the forest and vegetable garden.