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The Value of Prison Work
Dear Ven. Chodron,
Kalen from the Missouri
Zen Center told me that you donated some funds for the prison work
she is coordinating in Missouri. I was deeply touched that you unselfishly
shared your limited funds with her / us as I am sure you need all
the money you can raise at Sravasti Abbey. I expressed this sentiment
to Kalen, and she said that you have made a pledge / vow to yourself
to apply funds received from your books to this and other such work.
That is admirable. So thanks for your generosity!
I have a question for
you. You obviously feel working with prisoners is very important,
and this has been something I have struggled with. I have been slow
in getting involved, and my hesitancy has been caused by my uncertainty
about the significance of it. I often think our volunteer efforts
would be better placed with other groups like the poor, the sick,
troubled teens, the drug and alcohol addicted, etc.
I also wonder about
the sincerity of prisoners and the likelihood they will stick with
practice after they leave prison. I do think it is good to work
with those who are about to be released in hopes of keeping them
straight and happy and helping them to make the transition. This
seems a benefit both to them and to the larger society in which
they will soon be living. But working with those who are not getting
out for many years, or perhaps not at all seems less worthwhile.
If you have time could
you please send me a few lines as to why you think this work is
important, and why it is more important than some other social work
Buddhists might do?
Thanks,
Kevin
Dear Kevin,
Thanks for your email.
It's my pleasure to contribute to the prison work the Zen Center
is doing. And thanks, too, for your questions about why I see prison
work as valuable. Many people probably have such questions.
I guess I should start
by saying I didn't have the intention to do prison work or seek
it out. Rather, it came to me. One nice thing about being a Buddhist
monastic is that when someone asks for help, I don't have a choice.
I have to help to the best of my ability (which is often limited
by time, knowledge, finances, experience, other commitments, etc.)
Back in 1997, a letter from a prisoner found its way to me and slowly
more letters began to arrive. With the intention to help, I responded.
Over time, I realized I was learning much more from the inmates
than I was teaching. More about that later.
As you noted, there
are many groups who need aid: the poor, sick, troubled teens, substance
abusers, and so on. Even people who seem to "have it all"
are unhappy. They need a different kind of help. Of those of us
who want to do volunteer work, each of us has different interests
and unique abilities, Accordingly, each person will have his or
her own preference about which group(s) to work with. As long as
we help others in a constructive way, it doesn't matter to whom
we reach out. We can't say one way or one group is better or more
deserving of help than another.
Of the groups you mentioned
that it might be good to help, many inmates belong to one or more
of them. They often grew up in poverty, from a family where the
parents were alcoholics or drug users. They were troubled teens
and many of them suffer from depression or other illnesses that
were not diagnosed. So, it's true, helping people from these groups
earlier, before they commit a crime, would prevent a lot of suffering
for them and for others.
But even if someone
has committed a crime, they are still a human being with the Buddha
nature and are therefore worthy of respect. People in general often
see inmates as not being members of society. But to me "society"
means the collection of sentient beings in this universe. Everyone
belongs to society, and there is nowhere we can go where we do not
live in relationship to society and everyone in it. We exist interdependently.
We exist in relationship to prisoners.
It's easy to think that
helping someone who is about to be released from prison is useful,
because that will facilitate their re-introduction to the busy world.
But people in prison have lives too, and their lives influence many
lives on the outside. I would love for a journalist to do a long
story on "Sunday morning in America" and feature all the
people in prison waiting rooms. There are parents; there are wives
and a fewer number of husbands; there are kids who grow up with
a prison waiting room and visitors room as part of their environment.
When one person in a family goes to prison, an entire family as
well as a group of friends, is impacted. Influencing one prisoner
has ripple effects that go far and wide.
Society exists in prison,
too. There are real people there, not only inmates, but also guards,
chaplains, maintenance crews, etc. Influencing one inmate can go
a long way and can save a life. One man told me that reading 'Working
with Anger' at a crucial time for him helped him calm down and look
inside when he was on the verge of violence. That may have resulted
in saving the life of another inmate or a guard and preventing grief
of a family should someone have been killed.
Furthermore, in working
with inmates, and with people on the outside for that matter, I
am just as concerned with aiding their future lives as helping this
life. I am concerned with their progress on the path to enlightenment,
and that goes far beyond this one life. Some of the inmates I've
been in touch with are very sincere Dharma practitioners, and although
there are many obstacles for them in this life, in other circumstances
in future lives, they may zoom along.
Sure, some inmates may
be manipulative, but people in prison don't have a monopoly on manipulation.
Lots of people outside do it too. But the inmates who are interested
in the Dharma "get" it in some way that many of us on
the outside don't. They are intimate with the suffering of cyclic
existence. They can see how their own ignorance, hostility, and
clinging attachment cause suffering. They are often more willing
to admit their weaknesses and mistakes than those of us on the outside
who always want to look good in front of others.
The prison environment
is harsh. It's no picnic being in there. Just hearing about love
and compassion brings happiness to their minds. They know they've
caused pain and they want to change. The possibility of developing
bodhicitta and being of benefit is something that resonates and
inspires them. It makes living in the chaos and violence of American
prisons doable.
I was discussing with
another nun who does prison work about having to make a choice between
visiting one prisoner in a far-off prison that it takes hours to
get to or teaching a Dharma group of middle-class people in the
city. Time is an issue, but we agreed that most of the time, we'll
choose to visit the prisoner. Why? That one person really appreciates
our visit. He listens closely; he values what he hears; he'll think
about it later and try to practice. Inmates always say, "Thank
you for coming." They know it took me hours to get there and
they appreciate it. People in city Dharma centers sometimes don't
think how exhausting it can be for a teacher to travel to their
city to teach.
Some of the people continue
to practice the Dharma after being released. Others I'm not sure
because they don't write much afterwards. But regardless, I'm sure
the Dharma has influenced them in a positive way. They have told
me as much and I can see it in their letters. Benefiting someone,
whether or not they keep up a formal meditation practice, is useful.
In any case, think how many people go to Dharma centers and don't
keep up their practice after a year or two. Still they benefit from
what they've heard.
I've learned a tremendous amount from the inmates.
Most of the men I visit or write to have done the crimes that I
fear the most. Previously I would have shirked away in fear. But
I've learned that they are human beings just like me. Their life
is more than the one act that landed them in prison. I can no longer
put them in a category-rapist, murderer-and ignore or discard them.
They are people with a rich life experience. Their sharing with
me teaches me things I could never learn at a university. As a simple
example, we can study sociology and learn statistics about poverty
and broken homes and say, "That's horrible," and go on
with our lives. But try listening with your heart to one person
who has grown up in poverty with an alcoholic parent. Try listening
to someone who has lived on the streets since he was 12 years old
tell you about his teenage years. You're going to get a first hand
understanding of the social, political, and economic dynamics of
society.
Bhikshuni Thubten Chodron
Dear Ven. Chodron,
Thank you for your thoughtful, detailed comments.
They were entirely useful. It was pure Dhamma and quite inspiring.
One point that I had not considered and that touched me was the
ongoing relationship between prisoners and their families. As the
Dharma effects the prisoners, it should also have some impact on
their families, and that is a wider benefit than I had realized.
Also, I had not thought enough about the extent
to which they are still a part of society as a whole. Even if we
decide we don't want to work with prisoners / convicts, some of
the people we work with on the outside may have been or may be prisoners
in the future anyway! Or some of those we work with outside prison
may be family or have close relationships with prisoners. It is
impossible to completely separate prisoners from the rest of us--there
is a continuum of interpersonal relationship from prisoners to non-prisoners.
And we are all people in one society.
I wish you continued good health and happiness,
Kevin
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