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Explanation of the Extensive Offering Practice
by Venerable Thubten Chodron
Cloud Mountain Retreat Center, November 2005
Because
the Extensive
Offering practice may be new for some of you, it's important
to understand its purpose and meaning. One purpose of making offerings
is to overcome our miserliness, stinginess, and the fear that thinks,
"If I give it away, I won't have it." Here we counteract
those emotions by practicing giving again and again. This helps
us to overcome our attachment and fear of poverty-the anxiety that
we will lack what we want or need. That fear of lacking is quite
real even though we live in the wealthiest country on the planet.
Sometimes it seems to me that we have more fear of not having things
than people who are poor because now we are afraid of losing what
we have, or of not having what everyone else has. In addition, when
we ordinary beings have a lot of things, we still aren't satisfied
and content. We want more and better and simultaneously we fear
losing what we have.
The mind has this sense of poverty although
we have so much. We still feel poor and feel financially insecure.
From this we see very clearly that having what we like doesn't solve
the feeling of poverty, insecurity, and lack. Think about that,
and look at your thoughts and behavior around possessing things.
We usually think, "I feel a lack inside, that something is
missing in my life, so I want to buy something to fill that void."
But if we look at our own experience, we see that many times we've
gotten what we felt we needed to fill the void, but the void is
still there. Think about it in terms of your own experience.
We feel poor, so we go out and work hard and
earn a certain amount of money. Do we feel financially secure then?
Do we feel like we have enough money? Nobody ever feels like they
have enough money! I haven't met one person who feels financially
secure no matter how much they have. Similarly we feel a lack of
love in our life, so we go out and look for a romantic relationship,
or a friendship. We may make many friends or have several lovers,
but do we really feel loved inside? Does that fill the hole inside?
No. We still feel others could love us a little bit more. We all
feel we could use some more love, don't we? No matter how many people
appreciate us, we still feel it's not enough. We could use some
more appreciation. No matter what we have--possessions, friendships,
status, romance--it doesn't really satisfy us. We still feel a sense
of emptiness or need inside. Why? Because external objects and people
don't have the power to satisfy the internal lack.
The problem isn't that we don't have what we
want; the problem is that we cling to what we want. As long as there
is the clinging, there will never be any satisfaction. When there
is no clinging, then, no matter what we have in terms of possessions,
love, appreciation, reputation, or status, whatever we have will
be sufficient and we will feel content and complete. But when there
is clinging, no matter what we have we feel poor. So the way we
have been using to meet our needs--getting external things--has not
worked; because the problem isn't not having what we want, the problem
is clinging to what we want. As soon as we start pacifying the clinging
and letting it go, there will be peace in the mind.
The practice of making offering generates that
sense of peace because we give, and offer, and give. We become familiar
with giving, which is the opposite of clinging. Even though the
practice involves visualizing massive giving and the actual offering
on the altar are comparatively small, we are freeing ourselves from
that mind of clinging that says, "I need, I want, I have to
have." That clinging mind is suffering. The practice of making
extensive offerings is a skillful way to train the mind in giving.
Even though we simply visualize making offerings,
for some of us it is hard to even visualize giving the things that
we like, isn't it? Imagine giving up our house, giving up our favorite
possession, giving up the person we love? Oh no! We can't do that!
Although we're only visualizing giving, our mind is resistant. But
the more we do this, the more the clinging loosens the more peace
comes in the mind. When there's peace in the mind, we can still
have things and enjoy being with other people, but our mind isn't
clinging to them. When clinging doesn't occupy our mind, there's
peace, contentment, and acceptance of the situation. We will accept
other people, accept what we have. We will be relaxed. This is one
benefit of this practice.
A second benefit is that it creates a lot of
positive potential or merit, in Sanskrit and Pali the term is punya,
in Tibetan it's sonam. We need to create this good karma, this positive
potential to experience the resultant happiness it brings in our
lives. Generosity is one of the chief ways that we create positive
potential because a mind that takes delight in giving is a wholesome
mind. This virtuous mind automatically creates positive potential.
We see the results of our previous generosity all around us: the
fact that we have enough to eat, a home to live in, friends, and
the possibility to attend this retreat--these all came about because
of our having been generous in previous lives. We created that positive
potential that ripened in our receiving the four requisites for
living--food, clothing, medicine, and shelter.
When we create positive potential by being generous,
we dedicate it not simply so that we will have a pleasant life and
what we need to live in future lives, but also to attain liberation
and enlightenment. Creating positive potential is essential for
even having the opportunity to practice the Dharma. For example,
not everyone had the opportunity to attend this retreat. So many
people wanted to come and had obstacles. For some, external events
made it hard for them to come; for others the hindrance was mental--distraction,
attachment, anxiety. We can see that just having the opportunity
to practice the Dharma is difficult to come by. How many people
have the opportunity to do retreat for the next week? There are
over five billion people on this planet and how many are doing retreat
this week? Numerically only a very tiny percentage. So it takes
quite a lot of goodness or positive potential to create the causes
for this opportunity. Thus creating positive potential is another
benefit of doing the extensive offering practice.
You may be puzzled, "We visualized making
offerings to all these Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, but who are they?
And how do I know they exist? Then we make offerings to statues,
stupas, and scriptures in so many other countries. This sounds like
idol worship. What in the world am I doing?"
Who are the Buddhas and bodhisattvas? If we
are really aspiring for full enlightenment, we better believe there
are some beings who have attained it, otherwise what are we aspiring
for? This brings us to understanding the Three Jewels of Refuge--the
Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha--and taking them as our spiritual guides.
The Dharma is the actual refuge. The Dharma Jewel consists of the
path consciousnesses, those consciousnesses that directly realize
reality, the emptiness of inherent existence of all phenomena. The
Dharma Jewel also includes true cessations, the cessation of each
affliction. These two--true cessations and true paths--are the last
two of the Four Noble Truths. The Four Noble Truths are the basic
foundations of Buddhist belief and practice. The Sangha are those
who have actualized that Dharma refuge--any individual who has the
non-conceptual union of serenity and special insight on emptiness.
It's good to clarify what the word "Sangha"
means because there's a lot of confusion about it in America. The
Sangha we take refuge in are those highly realized beings who directly
know the nature of reality. Nowadays some people in America use
the term "Sangha" to refer to anybody who comes to a Buddhist
center. That is very confusing because many of the people who come
to the Buddhist center are not even Buddhists, and if we think we
are taking refuge in these people, we get very confused because
not everyone who comes to a Buddhist center has good ethical discipline
or is a kind person. So it's important to know that the Sangha we
take refuge in are those highly realized beings--it may be one individual
who is either a monastic or a lay follower. The representative or
the symbol of those highly realized beings is the monastic community,
a group of four or more fully ordained monastics. Why does the monastic
community symbolize the Sangha refuge? Because they are holding
the precepts of the Buddha and they are intent on practicing the
path to gain the realizations of the aryas who are the actual Sangha
Jewel.
In summary, the Dharma Jewel is the realizations
and the cessations of suffering. They are our real refuge. The Sangha
are those who have realized emptiness directly; they have the true
cessations and the true paths. That Sangha is the arya beings, i.e.
anyone who has realized emptiness directly. This includes arhats,
higher level bodhisattvas, and Buddhas. Then the Buddha Jewel consists
of the truth body and form bodies of the fully enlightened Buddhas.
One of the form bodies is Shakyamuni Buddha who turned the Dharma
wheel in our historical age. These are the Three Jewels of refuge,
and we make offerings to them because we respect and appreciate
them.
Doing some contemplation on the Buddha, Dharma,
and Sangha is important if we are going to follow the Buddhist path.
The Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha are our guides and also our goal.
We want to become the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha ourselves. If we
don't understand where we are going or who our guide is, we won't
be able to practice in a very clear, methodical way. It takes some
time to understand Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, but even if we have
a general idea, our motivation and our path will be clearer and
more stable.
Why do we visualize the Buddhas, bodhisattvas,
and arhats? Because they are the ones we rely on to guide us on
the path. They are role models for what we want to become. We visualize
a lot. And usually it's not the Buddhas and bodhisattvas--we can
visualize pizza very easily. If I say the word "pizza"
don't you have a picture in your mind? Do you know what kind of
pizza it is, what the topping is, whether it has a thin crust or
thick crust? Our visualization is very clear.
If I say, "think of the person you love
the most," the image of that person comes in your mind right
away. That is visualization. If I say, "think of your mother"
or "think of your father," you can visualize them easily
even if they are no longer alive. An image of our home pops into
our mind, easily and clearly. All this is visualization. So the
practice of visualization is nothing new, we are doing it all the
time. However, we're usually too busy visualizing objects of attachment
and objects of anger to think about the Three Jewels. That's why
it seems harder to think of them; it's simply because we're more
familiar with other visualizations.
Instead of visualizing objects of attachment,
now we visualize objects of aspiration, the Three Jewels of refuge.
Instead of visualizing all the people that we cling to, that we
have so many unrealistic expectations of, we are turning our mind
to those who lead us on the spiritual path. We usually visualize
the people we like and the people we're attached to. You may even
have brought pictures of them here to the retreat. We make offerings
to those people: we buy them presents, praise them, do things for
them. Maybe you are looking around the retreat center to see what
you could buy to take home to your family, but there's not a large
selection of stuff! Just as we visualize people who are important
to us, and make offerings to them, now we visualize the Three Jewels
and making offerings to them. This offering practice is really nothing
unusual for us. It's just that we usually do it by offering to ordinary
beings who are the object of our attachments, and the objects we
offer are also ordinary. We also are in the habit of making offerings
to ourselves. We go to the store and buy this and that for ourselves,
for the enjoyment of our self-centered ego.
Usually we visualize a world in which we are
surrounded by everybody we like, which means everybody who likes
us. Isn't that the definition of who we like--the people who like
us? I'm such a sucker, if somebody likes me I lose all my discriminating
wisdom and I like them. I don't care how mean they are, how awful
they are, how immoral they are. But if they like me, my mind says
they are good people. If somebody doesn't like me, it doesn't matter
how highly spiritual realized or virtuous they are, I can't stand
them. Are any of you like that? We totally lose our discriminating
wisdom.
So here we are transforming this process, so
that we visualize and make offerings to the holy beings who have
more love and compassion for us than we have for ourselves--the
Three Jewels who will never betray our trust or leave us. Instead
of populating our world with people who like us or people we like--and
some of these people may not have a good influence on us--we now
populate our world with highly realized spiritual beings who have
the motivation to only benefit us and to lead us to enlightenment.
They're a wonderful community of friends. Think about it: Who's
more reliable, the Buddha or your best friend? Who is going to really
help you when you are in trouble, when you are dying? What can your
best friend do for you when you are dying? They might sit there
and cry and make it even harder for you to die. Sometimes I think
best friends are the ones we need to be furthest away from when
we die because the attachment to them is so strong. But the Buddhas
and bodhisattvas teach us the path to enlightenment, which is the
greatest gift anybody can ever give us. If we practice the path
that they teach us, then when the time of death is there, we'll
be very relaxed and tranquil.
I heard a beautiful story about Ribur Rinpoche.
He had cancer and was in a hospital in Washington D.C. He was very
sick and was going in and out of consciousness. At one point he
woke up from his sleep and said to his attendant, "Please make
offerings." His attendant replied, "Let's do that when
we get home. We're in the hospital now, and I can't set up the water
bowls." Ribur Rinpoche said, "But there are Buddhas all
around and I want to make offerings to them." Isn't that a
beautiful story? Imagine being deathly ill and seeing all the Buddhas
and bodhisattvas in the room with you!
By visualizing them in this practice, we remember
these holy beings and this makes us more receptive to their spiritual
influence. We are creating an environment filled with virtuous beings
who can lead us on the path to lasting happiness and who can show
us how to live in a meaningful way. When we are upset, disappointed,
or depressed, we usually run to our best friend, hoping they'll
throw their arms around us and tell us how wonderful we are--which
doesn't necessarily change the situation. Now, when we are upset
or depressed, we run to the Buddhas and the bodhisattvas and say,
"Teach me how to deal with this mental state. Teach me the
Dharma." They give us teachings, and when we practice them,
the uncomfortable mental state dissipates. We begin to see that
the Buddhas and bodhisattvas are our real friends. Visualizing the
Buddhas and bodhisattvas helps us turn our minds to them, to take
refuge in them, to remember the Dharma that they teach, and to apply
it in our life in whatever situation that we are in. That's why
we visualize the Buddhas and bodhisattvas.
Why do we make offerings to them? We make offerings
to the people we like. When we appreciate somebody our natural inclination
is to give them a gift. And when giving them a present, we feel
happy. When we give a gift out of obligation, or to get on somebody's
good side, we don't feel so good. But when we give a gift to someone
we admire, our heart is joyful. In the Extensive Offerings practice,
we think about the qualities of the Buddhas, bodhisattvas, arhats,
and our spiritual mentors, and then make offerings to them with
a joyful heart. In doing so, we create a wonderful link with these
beings who are our role models and our spiritual guides. We connect
with them through giving them gifts. We give them actual gifts by
putting offerings on a shrine and we also give them mentally transformed
gifts by imagining the sky full of gorgeous offerings.
What an incredible visualization! What do we
usually imagine in our daily life? Before we leave the house for
work, we imagine a traffic jam. Then we imagine the meeting we have
to go to with people who don't agree with our opinions. We imagine
going to the grocery store, buying things we like, and making offerings
to the supreme object of offering--our own ego. In fact, we visualize
frequently during the day. Those visualizations don't bring much
joy to our mind, nor do they create virtue. Instead they generally
produce dissatisfaction and resentment.
Now we visualize the sky full of incredible
beautiful objects, things that are more exquisite than you could
buy at Nordstrom's or Macy's. Visualize spectacular flowers, fruit,
lights, incense and music. Visualize whatever you're attached to,
especially the things you long to have yourself--a stupendous computer
that never crashes or succumbs to viruses and worms. A computer
that is actually user-friendly. It automatically updates itself
and you never have to buy any new software. It is compatible with
all your friends' computers so when you send them a file they can
open it. Visualize whatever your mind craves and with a joyful heart,
offer it to the Three Jewels.
If you long to have a beautiful home in Costa
Rica, imagine one that is more luxurious than you could ever hope
to have and then offer it. Offer the wonderful computer, the new
car you dream of buying. But now it's an SUV that doesn't burn fuel.
It's completely ecologically safe, never collides with another vehicle
or injures anyone. Its door never closes on someone's finger. It
has wings and can fly over traffic jams. (laughter) You never have
to fill it with gas or change the oil, it never breaks and the model
is always in style. It changes color according to the color you
want it to be that day, and it doesn't get dents or scratches and
dirt never sticks to it so you never have to apologize to someone
for having a dirty car. Imagine this stupendous vehicle and instead
of offering it to yourself, to your own ego, offer it to the Buddhas
and bodhisattvas.
You might wonder, "What are the holy beings
going to do with an SUV? Maybe I should keep it for myself. Buddha
doesn't need a computer, I think I better give it to myself."
The point isn't the practicality of the gift, but to free our mind
from miserliness. How joyful to imagine beauty, to free our mind
from miserliness, and to make a strong connection with the highly
realized, holy beings that we admire!
We can also offer people that we're attached
to. At the beginning, this may seem strange, "How can I give
a person away?" Remember that what we're releasing is our clinging,
we're not exiling the person from our life! Think of a person that
you are very attached to--your child, your lover, your parent, your
dog. Imagine them in their most glorious form and offer them to
the Buddhas and bodhisattvas. If your mind reacts, "I don't
want to give my child away!" Think, "would my child be
safer under the guidance of the Buddhas or under my guidance? What
is of the greatest benefit to my child in the long run?" Do
you really want your child to always be clinging to you and doing
what you want? Do you want to always cling possessively to your
child? Or do you want them to grow spiritually? Do you want them
to actualize their Buddha Nature and attain liberation so that they
are free from all suffering forever? Imagine that you offer your
dear ones to the Buddhas and bodhisattvas with prayers that they
attain enlightenment quickly. Imagine your dear ones radiant under
the guidance of the Three Jewels.
Imagine flowers that never wilt, fruit without
pesticides, apples without wax, pizza, Chinese food and Thai food
and offer and offer and offer them, again and again. Let the feeling
of richness and abundance pervade you. When we cling to things,
there is always a feeling of poverty in the mind. Here, when we
imagine things that are even more beautiful than normal and offer
them, there is an incredible feeling of richness and joy. Experience
feeling abundance instead of feeling the mental state of poverty
that miserliness brings. Imagine beauty; imagine wonderful people
and companions, offer them to the holy beings that you respect more
than anybody else. They experience great bliss inseparable from
emptiness. Imagine that. Feel the strong connection you're making
with these realized beings.
When you visualize making offerings to statues,
scriptures, and stupas, see them as symbols of actual Buddhas and
bodhisattvas. While some people may find it more meaningful to visualize
Buddhas and bodhisattvas and offer to them, other people may prefer
to imagine offering to the statues, scriptures, and stupas that
symbolize them.
The purpose of having a statue is to remind
us of the Buddha and the Buddha's qualities. Looking at a statue
in the beginning of meditation often helps our visualization to
be clearer. Having a shrine in your home can be very helpful. One
day you might be in a frenzy, but when you walk pass the altar and
see the photo of your spiritual teacher or a statue of the Buddha,
you remember that it's possible to be calm. That physical image
helps us remember our motivation and encourages us to calm our mind.
But we do not worship it as an idol. When you see a picture of someone
you care about, you feel affection for that person, not for the
picture. Similarly, when you bow and make offerings on the altar,
you are not worshipping an idol or a statue, but are showing respect
to the qualities that that statue represents.
Q: For many of us it's easier to visualize our
partner or someone we care about because there's an emotional attachment.
But we don't have that kind of relationship with a Buddha or a stupa,
so they are more difficult to imagine and it's more difficult to
feel a connection with them.
Venerable: This is due to habit. We are very
habituated with attachment. The objects of attachment pop into our
mind so quickly and we come back to them again, and again. That
creates the feeling of connection. In this practice we are trying
to create a new kind of connection. Many of us have ignored the
spiritual path most of our lives in favor of following clinging,
anger, miserliness, jealousy, and arrogance. So of course we don't
have as much familiarity with the Buddhas and bodhisattvas who represent
a totally different direction in life.
Begin by contemplating the qualities of the
holy beings. Then think that those qualities appear in the physical
form of the Buddhas and develop habituation with that. For example,
the first time you heard about pizza, there wasn't strong habituation
with it. Maybe when you were little, your parents said, "Let's
go get pizza," and you didn't know what it was so your mental
image of it was fuzzy and you didn't feel much connection. But after
you ate some pizza, you knew better what it was and your visualization
became clearer. So did your feeling of connection and familiarity
with pizza. A similar mechanism is at play here. The more we think
of impartial love and compassion, universal forgiveness, equanimity,
and the wisdom that knows the nature of all existence, the more
we become familiar with those qualities and the beings who manifest
them--the spiritual mentors, Buddhas and bodhisattvas.
Remember when you were a teenager and somebody
said, "Think of the person you want to marry." You could
sit there and construct a detailed visualization of what the person
you wanted to marry was like. We could spend hours as teenagers
talking about it. That person was non-existent at that moment, but
because the mental factor of attachment was highly developed, we
could visualize and contemplate that person for hours. Here we are
trying to develop the mental factors of faith and confidence in
virtue, positive qualities, and the beings who possess them. The
more we think of those qualities, such as impartial love and compassion
for infinite living beings and the more we visualize those qualities
manifesting in the physical form of the Buddhas, the easier it will
be, due to familiarity, to imagine the Buddhas and bodhisattvas
and to feel connected to them.
Q: Are we trying to create the kind of emotional
connections with the Buddhas and bodhisattvas that we have with
the people we are attached to?
Yes and no. In the sense
that there is a feeling of connection, yes. In the sense of there
being attachment, no. That's challenging to our mind: How do we
feel connected without being attached? It is very important to understand
what attachment is; otherwise we will confuse connection with attachment.
But they aren't the same.
Attachment exaggerates
the qualities of someone or something and then clings to an image
of it that doesn't exist. The mind confuses the image with the object,
thinking that person is who we've created them to be. No wonder
we run into difficulties in personal relationships! We project all
the qualities we want our dream partner to have onto the person
that we love and then believe that they are really like that. But
as time goes on, we see that they are not the image we created of
them and thus we are disappointed. We get angry and blame them for
not being what we thought they were, even though they were never
that to begin with. It was all our mental creation of attachment.
On the other hand, Buddhas
and bodhisattvas have the qualities of infinite, impartial love
and compassion, so admiring those beings and qualities doesn't involve
exaggeration. It's suitable to admire and appreciate those qualities
and want to be near the beings that have them. It's said that the
Buddhas and bodhisattvas care for us more than we care about ourselves,
that they love us more than we love ourselves. Think about that
one a little bit. We need to open our hearts and minds to accept
that so that we can feel their compassion that leads them to teach
us the path to enlightenment. But if we want the Buddha to love
only us and not other people because we want to be special, we want
to be the object of the Buddha's attachment, then we're confused.
We ordinary beings tend to be possessive, "I want this person
to love only me. If they love anybody else, it is no good; it's
not allowable, they have to love only me." But relationships
with spiritual mentors, Buddhas, and bodhisattvas are different.
They love everybody, and they love them impartially. If we think
about it, that's to our advantage because we don't always act so
well. If the Buddhas and bodhisattvas were partial, then we'd run
the risk of getting thrown out or rejected in the same way that
ordinary beings reject us when we behave poorly. But the Buddhas
and bodhisattvas love sentient beings impartially; their love isn't
dependent on how we act towards them, whether we praise them or
make offerings to them. Their concern is for our well-being, not
for the fulfillment of ego. Thus we can relax and have some sense
of security that no matter how we act, the holy beings will never
abandon us. So you see, it's to our advantage that they care for
beings impartially. That doesn't mean it's fine to be careless in
our behavior, but that when we do slip up, they will forgive us
and continue to teach us the path.
Q: Even though anger is nasty, can I offer my anger
to them so that they can teach me how to erase the anger?
Yes. Think, "Anger harms me and others.
I want to give up my anger. I'm tired of justifying it and holding
onto it so that I have a false sense of power. I want to relinquish
it. Buddhas and bodhisattvas, please teach me how to do this."
Q: What is the meaning of the stupa?
The stupa is a Buddha's reliquary or monument.
Ever since the time of the Buddha, stupas have been made. Sometimes
they house the ashes of a holy being. We put a stupa or a bell on
the altar to symbolize the Buddha's enlightened mind. In Buddhist
communities worldwide people circumambulate stupas and temples.
Q: We are the ones who create our own karma and experience
its results. But in purification practices, it sounds like the Buddhas
and bodhisattvas can do something about our karma.
When we do the purification
practices, we are doing something about our karma because we are
the ones doing the purification practice. For example, in the Vajrasattva
practice we imagine Vajrasattva as the embodiment of all the qualities
that we admire and that we want to actualize. Then we reveal our
negativities and make the determination not to do those harmful
actions again. We take refuge in the holy beings and generate compassion
for ordinary beings. So by the process of doing these four opponent
powers--confession, refuge and bodhicitta, determination not to do
the action again, and rehabilitative action--we purify our mind and
hinder the ripening of these negative karmas by creating new mental
actions, new karma.
The Buddhas and bodhisattvas
from their side alone cannot purify us. The Buddha has infinite
impartial compassion for everybody, so if he could purify all of
our negative karma and save us from suffering, the Buddha would
have done that without a doubt. A Buddha is unrestricted from his
or her own side in terms of the guidance and help that they can
offer us sentient beings. The restriction is our level of receptivity.
From its side, sunlight shines everywhere equally, but it can't
go in an upside down container. The hindrance is from the side of
the container. When our minds are closed, the Buddhas' teachings,
blessings, and inspiration cannot enter. By doing purification practices,
we remove the clutter of negative karma from our minds, thus making
our minds more receptive and open to the Buddhas' guidance. So we
are the ones purifying our mind. But the holy beings guide and help
us along in this process.
Q: The Buddha passed away 2600 years ago. How can
he have impartial love for us?
Shakyamuni Buddha passed away in India 2600 years
ago. He was the particular Buddha of our historic age. According
to the Mahayana tradition, Shakyamuni Buddha is a nirmanakaya or
emanation body of a Buddha. The continuity of the enlightened mind
continues on even after that emanation is withdrawn. In addition,
there are many other Buddhas in addition to Shakyamuni Buddha, and
we can take refuge in and rely on all of them. Buddhas and Buddhas
can manifest on our planet. They don't go around telling everyone,
"I'm a Buddha," because that's not necessarily the most
skillful way to benefit us. In fact, if somebody tells you that
they've attained realizations or they are an Arya or they are enlightened,
be very careful. Proclaiming one's realizations is not an accepted
practice in the Buddhist tradition. The great masters are generally
very humble and modest.
Are we Buddhists or aspiring Buddhists?
Venerable: That depends
on the individual. All Buddhists are not Buddhas, so let's not expect
people who are Buddhists to be perfect. Whether we are Buddhist
or not depends on whether we want to apply that label to ourselves.
Some people like to say, "I'm studying Buddhism" or "I'm
interested in Buddhism." Others feel comfortable saying, "I'm
Buddhist." It depends on the individual.
The actual demarcation
for calling oneself a Buddhist is if we've taken refuge in the Three
Jewels, the Buddha, Dharma and Sangha. If we've made the decision
that the Dharma is the path we want to follow and the Buddhas and
Sangha are our guides, then technically we have become a Buddhist.
We don't take refuge in a particular Buddhist tradition or in a
particular teacher; we take refuge in the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha
that are universal to all Buddhist traditions.
Some people practice
the Dharma for many years but don't like to tell anybody. When their
colleagues at work discuss religion and ask, "What religion
do you follow?" they say, "Oh, I go to some Buddhists
talks." In fact they've taken refuge and precepts and practice
the Dharma, but they are in the closet. I think it is interesting
to look at that mind that fears other people's judgment if we say
we are Buddhist. That could be a mind that's attached to reputation.
On the other hand, there are people who boast, "I'm a Buddhist,"
and seek attention.
Q. Why do we visualize making offerings to statues,
scriptures, and stupas, not just the Buddhas and bodhisattvas?
I have the same question.
I haven't had the chance to ask Rinpoche this, but my guess is that
perhaps for some people thinking of Buddhas and bodhisattvas in
pure lands is too abstract. They find it easier to think of statues
and stupas that they have seen. However, for me it's easier thinking
of Buddhas and bodhisattvas in pure lands. When I read in a Mahayana
sutra about a bodhisattva asking the Buddha a question and from
the curl on the Buddha's forehead light radiates in all directions
and Buddhas and bodhisattvas come from universes in distant space
to hear him speak, I can get a picture of that and find it inspiring.
People have different temperaments, so what works for one person
doesn't for another. Therefore, several ways are included so people
can meditate in the way that inspires them the most.
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